Nowadays, more than ever, people criticize others so much, who end up spending most of their time criticizing how others live. However, you do not need to explain to anyone or waste your energy. Δεν χρωστάτε να δικαιολογηθείτε για τον τρόπο ζωής σας, your choices, or with whom and where you will choose to spend your time.
If at the end of the day you feel happy and love the life you lead, αυτό μόνο μετράει Εάν ζείτε σύμφωνα με την αλήθεια σας, you do not need to feel ashamed or apologize to anyone. Other people can not dictate how you will live, so never say 'sorry' for the following things.
Read on 12 things you should not say you are sorry for:
Make yourself a priority in your life.
The concept of 'I'm happy' has been misunderstood and some people associate it with 'I'm selfish'. In fact, no one else can offer the joy you can give yourself, so it makes sense to want to put yourself first.
It is not selfish to do the best for yourself.
If you take your life in your own hands, instead of waiting for others to teach you how to live, then you have already conquered an important aspect of self-development. We all have a responsibility 100% για το πώς επιλέγουμε να ζήσουμε τη ζωή μας και μόνο βάζοντας πρώτες τις ανάγκες μας μπορούμε να επιχειρήσουμε στη συνέχεια να βοηθήσουμε άλλους που έχουν ανάγκη. After all, how we can help others, if we can not help ourselves ;
Follow your dreams.
Wanting more in life, does not make you ungrateful or spoiled. It makes you ambitious. This means that you have goals and dreams and you want to fulfill them while you can still. This means that you do not have to compromise with less than, what do you know you are capable of. Others may see you only as dreamers who will never really find happiness, but, it does not matter what others think in the end.
You can express your gratitude for everything,τι έχετε ευλογηθεί να έχετε, while still aspiring for more in life. So, μην αισθάνεστε άσχημα επειδή έχετε μεγάλα όνειρα. Chase them with all your heart, and the universe will surprise you in ways you can never imagine.
You find time for yourself
In this fast paced world, most of us spend so much time caring for others and their needs that we forget our own. However, if we do not fill our own glass, how can we ever expect it to be left at all for others;
Taking care of ourselves is not something selfish. It is something necessary for our health. Never apologize if you refuse an invitation or say no to someone, to take care of yourself. Either you are booked for a vacation 5 star or an afternoon at the spa , you should always come first in your life and you should never feel bad about your 'time'.
You choose who you will date
No one else can decide for you. No one can determine if you want to date someone, only you, so do not let anyone else make you feel ashamed of your romantic relationship. When you truly love and care about that person, then you can date whoever you want. We are all one,after all, και όλοι έχουμε την αγάπη μέσα μας. If someone is worried about the person you are dating then they just do not deserve a place in your life..
You express your feelings
Unfortunately, today there is a shame in expressing emotions. We are like robots in a society that expects us to obey and not express how we feel. Never let anyone tell you that you can not express yourself. Of course,you should not get angry with your boss right before he gives you a raise, for example, but in general, ζούμε σε μια πολύ ασφυκτική κοινωνία όπου οι άνθρωποι δεν αισθάνονται άνετα να εκφραστούν. There is a time and place for every emotion, but you should never be ashamed of how you feel at any given moment.
How to make money
As long as you feel emotionally and mentally satisfied with your job, then never say 'I'm sorry' about that. It does not matter if you make billions or even hundreds at a time, The amount does not matter if you do not feel comfortable with your profession. Anything that makes you feel good while also helping you have food on the table, is enough, so do not let anyone make you feel like you are not.
You are optimistic
In a world where people are constantly telling us to 'expect the best', but prepare for the worst ’, το να κρατήσουμε το κεφάλι μας ψηλά μπορεί να φαίνεται μια σκέτη πρόκληση. However, Many scientists and researchers around the world have recognized the many benefits of positive thinking, including reduced pressure,of longer life, the most creativity and much more.
Staying positive in difficult times can make us more resilient and better able to meet challenges..
For your past
Some people want to talk about all the mistakes you made in the past, but if they do, just remember that. While sitting there criticizing you and your life, you gained experience and learned from your mistakes. At the end of our lives, we will only have our experiences and memories to accompany us, so, μην αφήνετε κανέναν να σας κάνει να αισθάνεστε άσχημα για το παρελθόν σας. We live and learn and our past should not determine us.
For your diet
People want to tell others what to eat, how to eat and what will make them feel better, but at the end of the day, this is your body. Just like we should not tell others how to eat, do not let them dictate your eating habits. From vegetarians to meat eaters, everyone thinks they know the best nutrition for humans, but in fact, only you can decide what makes you feel good, not someone else.
Challenge the prevailing trend
Some people are so concerned about the lives of people in today's world,so that people really feel guilty about how they choose to live. Just live your truth and it does not matter what others say. Remember, if anyone feels threatened by the way you live your life, could actually envy you. Sometimes, people feel so uncomfortable and unhappy with their lives,who want to make others feel ashamed so that they feel better about themselves.
If you want to teach your children at home, to eat alone in the garden, να θεραπεύεστε μόνο με την τροφή και να διδάξετε τα παιδιά σας την αγάπη και την ειρήνη αντί του τι δείχνει η τηλεόραση, you do not need to apologize. Everyone deserves to live the life they want, without feeling remorse because he just does what his heart says.
You have an opinion
You can respect someone without necessarily agreeing with them. If you have a different opinion do not hesitate to express it, even if this does not seem to be a 'popular' choice. The world will never change, if we keep our views to ourselves, because many times, the best ideas come from different opinions and different views.